While most of the articles that you read about children and divorce are going to focus on the emotional and psychological effects of divorce, there is also a financial impact that we can’t ignore. A divorce can cost between a couple thousand dollars to tens of thousands of dollars, depending on the situation. It is this cost that keeps divorce out of the reach of many couples that are truly unhappy with their marriage. However, the cost of hiring an attorney to defend your interests and parenting rights can also keep some parents from producing a fair settlement.
Last week I came across an article from Washington State that discussed a Washington State Supreme Court ruling that declared that state provided attorney during a divorce was not a legal right because divorce is a “private civil law” issue. As a result of this precedent many parents will have no hope for finding assistance during their divorce. Fortunately there are other options.
There are a few legal resources that you can turn to when you don’t have the money to hire an attorney to defend your position during a divorce. If there was abuse involved in the marriage then your local social services department may have a legal program to offer you counsel at a reduce or pro bono rate. There are also many non-profit organizations that offer legal help for people on small budgets.
Divorce mediation is an excellent option to settle things in a friendly way, especially if you are on a limited budget. However, both parents will need to be willing to participate. To access more a href=”http://www.children-and-divorce.net/smart-divorce-resources.html”>smart divorce resources and information about divorce parenting plan is here…
Sally from Probate Lawyer Chicago
December 2nd, 2009 at 19:24
I would definitely recommend going about mediation, but unfortunately there seem to be far too few situations where both parties are willing to go about things amicably.
Sam from Solicitors Kent
February 8th, 2010 at 14:35
I would also reccomment mediation. It’s the least stressful solution. A divorce is easier difficult for everyone (husband, wife and children) if both parties can be understanding of each other. Not always easier but it is possible.
Madeline
December 1st, 2011 at 21:28
Good advice. And if you have a great mediator, s/he will focus on what is best for the children. Then the arguments and tension will really subside.
julien from uxbridge solicitors
January 26th, 2012 at 15:49
Mediation is a great solution to find the best solution for the children but some parents don’t always think for their children… unfortunately