0 commentsThe process of getting a divorce is usually orchestrated by lawyers who each want to get as much for their client as possible. When people take this route their kids can get lost in the shuffle. When going through my own divorce I wanted to avoid the conflicts and arguments and to protect the interests of my son. When researching my options I came across a divorce mediator who offered me the solution that I was looking for.
Family and divorce mediation is great option for parents who are going through divorce. Instead of using a divorce process that breeds conflict and contempt for one another, a divorce mediator helps the divorcing parents to focus on the well being and continued functionality of the family unit. This is accomplished through focused discussions about how to settle the legal issues involved in a divorce so that the family can remain together, even though the intimate relationship between the parents is being dissolved
What I found to be helpful during the mediation process is that I had to let go of my negative feelings and embrace the opportunity to create a functional family from the ashes of my past relationship. Once I approached the mediation process with positive energy I found that this empowered me and helped to keep the discussions on track. My example also made it possible for my ex-husband to lower his guard and participate in the mediation process without feeling the need to be defensive
Divorce mediation is a practical and ethical alternative to lawyer based divorces. This process empowers children and divorced parents, and allows them to develop a parenting plan that will keep the family functional. For more information on creating a healthy family visit Children and Divorce now!
